I am not taking this out of context ...I did shorten it, but I didn't take it out of context.  Jesus said He didn't condemn her, but He didn't say He condoned her actions ...He said to go, and sin no more. Jesus called it sin ...make no mistake that He considered relations, like that which the woman was caught in the act of, outside of marriage ...as sin.  But she was caught in the act with who?  When they brought the woman to Jesus, why did they not bring the man also?  Do you think they had to answer that within themselves, as one by one they tossed down their stones and left?  Yes, each time, in this situation ...the man sins too.